I'd probably never dress that way, but I've always found Gothic Lolita really cool. It reminds me of Victorian fashion, and I'm in love with the Victorian era. Never heard of Aristocratic Lolita before, but that looks good too.
I LOVE the Lolita fashions, I'm in to fashion so I love how there styles are kind of out there and unique with personal twists. Most people that dress in those styles, find that "common" clothing (like jeans & a tee) is kind of boring and not as free & expressive.
It's definately out of the ordinary. It's an eye catcher.
And to me, I think it's a bit too much. Like you're dressing up to go out to some party or what not, not something you would wear daily.
I wouldn't wear that, since I'm more of the vintage, simple style but if you feel comfortable with that then go for it.
Sweet Lolita- if I saw a girl dressed like that I'd think she's very weird. the only guys I can see who would be attracted to that would be creepy ones with pedo tendencies. why would a grown woman want to dress like a little girl? very weird
Gothic lolita- Creepy
aristocratic lolita- Not bad, might make her stand out in a different way
punk/gothic- It looks very cheap in a 14 year old Hot Topic way