if he did nothing at all
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Oooooooh bubba...let me let you in on something. If she's upset, you did something. Problem is it could have been something you did a year ago, and something small set her off. Worse yet, she isn't going to want to tell you because you should know what it was.
Women don't fight, they feud. Women make lists. They remember everything. Nothing goes away.
Look...do you really care about her? If not, just consider it a lesson learned. If you do, it's up to you to figure this out.
Ok...get ahold of your pride, roll it up and put it someplace you won't trip over it.
Tell her you are trying to understand what is going on, but she needs to talk to you. You don't read minds. I don't care how silly the issue may seem to you, if she is upset, it's a big deal to her.
You can't get angry, raise your voice, or pace for that matter. You can however, help her to understand that it takes two. If she is unwilling to deal with things as they come up, that is going to end up killing any chance the two of you have.
This is a way of thinking, and as such, it can be changed. It is going to require diligence and patience on your part, and willingness to accept on hers.
Hope that helps0