The other day I was talking to my boyfriend about getting a few facial piercings, because I've always wanted them. He strongly implied that he very much disagrees with the idea, an he even said they would make me ugly, turn him off and he would have an incredibly hard time looking at me/getting used to it. But, he then proceeded to say that he thought I was already beautiful, but could get them if I want. My first impression of that was "He is guilt-tripping me" so I confronted him about that, and said my dilemma was actually serious as I have wanted them long before I met him. He clearly stated his opinion again, but didn't want to "ruin my dreams" I said alright I'll get them then. He proceeded to ask what kind, I said maybe my lip, but he totally flipped when I said that. He bluntly stated absolutely not, that its just sick and he would never look me in the face or kiss me, let alone touch me ever again. But the same thing happened after that! He said he didn't want to "ruin my dreams" again, but kept going on about how disgusting it is. What is he doing?
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What is he doing? ``Guilt-tripping'' is too polite of a word to describe his reactions.
If body piercings are too much for him, you've learned something about him.
Just do it and let the chips fall where they may.
It's your affair, he is an on-looker who wants to control you.0