OMG, the shoes... they mean a lot. My boyfriend was wearing these ugly HUGE skater shoes and he was 24. I thought that was gross, I'm SO GLAD he threw them UGLY sheos away. They looked so HUGE on him, he's trying to change his style of clothes and look more sophisticated and grown up and they just don't match! GEE! UGLY... but he wears jeans and dress shirts (mostly blue ones with lines, colar shirts and business casual for work). But I mean, those UGLY dim gray skater shoes were the ugliest things. Plus he hasn't skate in YEARS... so why need them? They made him look like a CLOWN, and he's super skinny (5'9 and 125) but whatever... you know? they just didn't match. Thank God he threw them away. He's now wearing super slim black and white pumas with everything, OMG looks so much better! I can't tell you how much BETTER it looks... but yeah. Ugly skater shoes -clown, little 14 year old boy, doesn't match outfits or his age... that's why!