I am pretty, smart and have a good head on my shoulders. I don't know if I am just feeling insecure but do all guys like girls that dress like sluts? I dress nice and sexy but no o the point where my boobs and thighs are showing. I feel like guys only go for girls that are pretty but wild. My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago and now he has all things girls that dresses provocative on his page. I'm really starting to think by me just me and me and classy, I won't get a another boyfriend
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Dress how YOU like. Everyone is always gonna have an opinion. Some people will say don't dress slutty, it's cheap, or that girl looks like a slut. Some people will say, dress hot show yourself off, blah blah.
It's all hype and judgments. Don't bother with any of it. Wear what YOU like that makes you happy and makes you feel good. Don't try to dress a certain way to impress guys or girls or anyone. If you start doing this with one thing, it's easy to end up seeking approval from other people on all kinds of things and thinking you should make decisions based on what other people say, think, or do.
Please avoid this whole mindset. There are always going to be people out there who will agree with you and back you up and be your friend or boyfriend because of who you really are and what you really believe in. These are the kind of people you want to seek out, find, and have in your life. Anyone who's not supportive of you, doesn't make you feel good about yourself, puts you down in any way, or just doesn't feel right to you - leave those people alone, you are better off without them.
Lots of guys are going to prefer that you dress nice instead of slutty. You want a respectful guy, not a creeper. If you dress slutty, you're going to attract certain guys who are after sex and whatnot. If that's not what you want, don't go there.1