This girl was always talking how she doesn't like to be superficial, and criticize girls that only go for looks, but then she turns me down because I'm not good looking enough for her. Then she tries to make it painfully obvious that she isn't interested in me because of my looks. The funny thing here is, she is not even that good looking herself. And she used to be really cool with me, but then after I made my interest clear, she started to behave like a bitch. She started the behave like she was too good for me, and almost offended that I liked her, like if it was a crime or a bad thing on my side to even dare to think that I could have a chance with her. And she even started to post stuff on blogs about if a guy really good looking would ask her to be his boyfriend, she wouldn't think twice about accepting. I know I should probably move on, but it really hurt that she is behaving this way seeing that I have always treated her with respect. This hurts more than the rejection itself. Some people tell me she is just immature, and well, I kind of agree. What do you think? Is she Immature, or just an hypocrite.?
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People typically backwards rationalize their behavior. Women also don't really understand what turns them on.
I don't know how many times I've met women who tell me that they like a guy who they claim is tall, muscular and good looking and when I meet him, he's short, fat and ugly.
But to her he was tall, and good looking and "husky".
Women typically fall for a guy based off his behavior, but then when someone asks them why they like that guy, their mind goes into the logical mode and looks for an obvious reason, and pulls out a stereotype that she's been fed by the media and other people. So she's going to say "oh I must like him because he's good looking, or tall."
A woman will also never tell a man to his face that "oh you stood this one way and the way you stared into my eyes and held my hand creeped me out."
They will just say "hes creepy" and won't know why she felt that way about him.
Or they will simply say "im not attracted to you" or "your ugly" just to get you to leave