I'm not sure if she's attracted to me now actually, but it looks likes she is. I was a fat a$$. This hot girl I work with was probably not attracted to me before. But I've lost A LOT of weight over the past few months. I started dressing nicer too. I see her now look at me a lot. She'll even look around things (objects), but I see her anyway. When I look back, she looks away. I know her well actually, we talk all the time. Sometimes she'll walk by my desk and smile. But what's with these looks? Could she be attracted to me now?
I can't ask her out though...already tried that when I was still big. She's been through a lot with becoming a single mom last year, and she said that she's not ready to date as a result. I'm sure that's true, but I can't help but think that the weight was part of it. Because when I started losing weight she began to flirt with me in a major way. Do I still have a chance?
** I have two kids by the way, so the child thing isn't an issue.
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Yeah I believe you have a chance. But If I were you it would always be in the back on my head why she couldn't like me then. But um that's in the past and I guess you should move on. She does seem to like you much better now. So give it a try. I know she's shocked that you look nicee. hehe. Welll good luck. :)0