Ill admit it right now, I like men and my man has to hot.
If he's not hot then I don't want him and I refuse to date him.
Yes.. I'm shallow.
And yet some people on here say that "oh he has to have ambition otherwise I won't date him."
That to me means if you won't date a man simply because he doesn't posses one attribute... that makes you shallow.
If a man comes on here and says "ill only date women with C cup boobs!" Its my "MINIMUM REQUIREMENT" Than he's no better than a man who only wants women for one thing.. also known as SEX.
Hes no better than a woman who wants a man ONLY for one thing, called MONEY.
(Now this is a disclaimer, not all people are shallow. Not ALL people are shallow... NOT ALL PEOPLE ARE SHALLOW.)
NOT ALL PEOPLE ARE SHALLOW.. NOT ALL NOT ALL.
(its a generalization of course.)
That being said I'm not talking about that. the problem I have is with people that say "ill only date someone if they have "THIS" or "THAT" and if they don't then I won't date them. And then they turn around and say that if they do then they will.
Either you are open minded to having someone with any traits or you are not.
Would you call someone open minded if they said they absolutely would not date a woman unless she had blond hair?
I don't think you would.
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better to appear as shallow than to lie...1