OK guys so my roommate is totally bumming right now about how she hasn't had a serious relationship in about two years and she is convinced that this is because she isn't pretty enough to attract a guy interested in a serious relationship. which is totally false because she is a very pretty girl, she's a complete sweetheart, she's only 120 pounds and 5' 3" she has a rocking body but she dresses in a conservative but cute way. she's the same age as me and we both major in the same thing. Hanna and I were talking about her not having a relationship and she thinks that guys only talk to her because the want to bang her and be done so my question to you guys is, are guys just looking for a one night stand with girls like Hanna or are they ready for long term relationships?
my roommate thinks that guys are only looking to have sex with her then leave because she's not attractive do guys have sex with girls they don't find attractive?
The guys who want relationships are out there - unfortunately, it seems at that age they are fewer in number and less likely to make their (good) intentions known; whereas the guys who are just after one thing have no inhibitions and act accordingly.
I think it's fair to assume that guys are just looking - not necessarily for a one night stand - but, chances are, for several stands...the only way to know if a guy really cares about you in a deeper way is to spend time with him.
But yeah, I think it's fair to assume (especially at your age) that guys are looking to get laid...
Most guys in college won't be looking for long-term, unless you define long-term as 20 minutes. But it sounds like she may be so worried about a hit-and-run it is messing up her chances of a relationship.