I dress in this sort of... composite style. I wear all black, band t-shirts, Tripp pants, and steel-toed boots. I have long hair, I'm kinda pale (but that's not really intentional, as some people believe), sometimes I wear make-up but not too often, and I'm not exactly sure what to call this. I've always preferred to be called a 'metal head' than a 'goth' person. But, I digress. Basically, my question is: Girls, is that a bad style to have when looking for a date?
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I honestly think it depends on the person...
It would obviously be a turn off for a preppy-preppy girl, but for someone who (like me!) dresses differently based on my mood, dyes her hair, pierces body parts, it wouldn't be.
I remember when I was addicted to band shirts, fish net and Tripp pants (basically Hot Topic) dying my hair black, etc... I freaked everyone, except for a couple of people, out.
So that may be what's going on with the girls around you. I remember this girl I met in 8th grade who told me she was scared of me, and she's the one who gave me the courage to go into Hot Topic.