I absolutely HATE body modifications such as facial/body piercings, tattoos, and even stuff as small as hair dye jobs or hitting the tanning booth. When girls do these things it just totally turns me off because I think it's ugly, it's trashy, and it's just disgusting. But they're all becoming so common nowadays it seems like it's impossible to find a girl who doesn't do these things. Do I need to adapt my standards and try to force myself to like these things that are major turnoffs to me if I am to find a woman in the modern world?
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Ok, so obviously the Anon two comments down took offense to your question. * someone call the waambulance*
I don't think you should lower your standards because you prefer a girl that is hard to come by.
I think you have every right to have standards, from my perspective its more complimenting.
I'm a girl, obviously, and the only make up I wear is mascara, and that's only on a special day.
I agree with you about body tanning, and hair dying and stuff. :) <- never done that stuff in my life..
Chances are there ARE more girls than you think out there that do not do that stuff. You are probably just looking at the wrong kind of girls, i.e your friends are into girls like that, but your not feelin it, yet it may not be so easy NOT to notice them
To the Anon:
Just because a girl does not wear makeup and tan and dye their hair or whatever sh*t that you do that obviously caused you to become offended, it DOES NOT mean their ugly, fat or whatever.
9 times out of 10 those girls are full of confidence, though they may not boast, that or they have better things to concentrate on.0