OK so I have extremely low confidence and self-esteem - maybe because I've never had a girlfriend - I guess I'm also depressed etc and am extremely shy...
I find most girls appear to be afraid of me - deliberately avoid eye contact, don't try and talk to me, don't smile etc. Its like once I come into the picture they all of a sudden become quiet or scared or something...
Sometimes ill catch a woman looking at me but they'll either give me one of those stupid fake smiles - almost like they feel sorry for me or something. Or they'll blankly stare at me then look away - expressionless.
The last girl I asked out rejected me, by saying she supposedly had a boyfriend yet never mentioned one in 5 months of talking to one another. Every time we spoke she would smile the whole time, make and maintain eye contact, laugh, dilated pupils, fiddle with jewelery and hair etc. And I thought for sure this would work and I still get rejected - so obviously this killed any confidence I had building and am not really sure how to properly read people anymore...
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It sounds like the last girl you asked out could possibly just be a flirt and not realize it. Some girls are just naturally flirty with guys or she might have been practicing her flirting skills with you but didn't mean for you to pick up on it.
The rejection is going to come. It doesn't mean you should stop trying! Girls like men who are confident and happy withthe life their given. You need to sit down and figure out who you are and embrace it! Who you are is unique to the world! No one else is like you! Be proud of it! That will give you the confidence you need to go pick up girls. Learn how to talk to them, flirt with them and get them to fall for you. Make them laugh, be courteous, have intelligent conversations with them! Do things you like to do but in public areas. Girls will come and ask to join. Things like that will help you find girls more like you so you can relate better and have an easier time getting to know them because you already know one thing to talk about! So some key points:
*Find yourself and embrace it!
Then you'll be fine and you'll find the girl for you! :)0