okay so to go further in detail, I'm 6'1 and about 180lbs(about 80KGs). I go to the gym almost religiously and I'm pretty defined and structured well. I'd say my back is my most noticeable aspect. I always do pull ups and what not, but how important is my body to the opposite sex? is it very attracting or just a bonus? I'm not going to say I'm ugly or anything, I'm pretty normal but I have been noticing girls looking at me differently, almost staring haha. any ideas why or if it's a good thing?
Its important to most girls. But I don't care about his body. That's the last thing on my mind. I mean ya know phyhsical appearence is important but I also want him to be healthy meantally and emotionally. And I don't wanna be the type of person that judges a person like that. But its good you workout it shows that you care about your health and you wanna look good. If girls are starting to look at you that's a good thing. So keep it up.
answer is yes, people say girls like personality over looks, but do you know how hard it is to get an athletic girl to give a fat guy a chance. Trust me I was once a little over weight with little to no muscle, but a gym membership, time and hard work changed my sex life!