Not too much unless she's a really dirty person - like having food on the floor, dirty carpets or dirty floors or trash lying around. I don't care about clothing lying around or the bed not made or things not matching, because that's not too bad, but if there's real dirt, then I might think twice about being hooked up with her because I would not want to live like that. I met a woman who had dirty diapers all over the place too, like overflowing from her trash cans in all of her rooms as well as trash all over the place and food as well. It was disgusting because it was totally a health issue. At any rate, I hope I answered your question!