what are little things that can increase pulling power?
how to become more attractive?
Most Helpful Girl
Of course looks do count but I think that it's also being respectful. I'll give a little example here: I sometimes had a crush on this one guy and at first I thought that he was perfect because he's both cute and he was always nice to me and giving me hugs and I sometimes thought that he "liked" me too. Well recently, especially last night, I've begun to not really like him because I've noticed that he's really loud and argumentative even now to me sometimes. I also heard him talk to some other guys - right in front of me - about this one girl whom he met. Well they didn't say anything about that girl's personality [though either they just met her or didn't meet her] but instead were talking about how "fine" she is and how they "would like to do some disgusting things to her." Of course I was a little jealous but I also realized that he's just not the guy for me because of his personality and character. So other things such as:
-sense of humor
count but being respectful and having character really count for at least the right type of girl you want to attract. And don't worry about being seen as "just a friend" because you're being respectful as long as you have the other traits and aren't being a pushover.0