I will never amount to anything aside from my looks. I'm a very beautiful girl, and I find whenever I talk to guys they always complement me. They'll say for example "that's cool, you're really pretty". And I'm sure to most girls they find this nice, but to me I find it bad. Like you're only talking to me because of my looks? My thoughts aren't as important as the way I look? It scares me to think that I may never find real guys to be friends with because of the way I look.
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You are part of the exchange as well. do you notice you like some guys more than other, stop worrying about why they like you. just gravitate towards guys you like & if your looks opens y up to them sooner its not a bad thing you are lucky. But your personality has to keep them there.
So just go do whatever you like to do strengthen your passions and capacities and you'll meet a guy who you relate to- who relates to you :)
Lots of guys find me attractive but I never worried that that was the only reason they talk to me -because I like myself . I find myself amusing generally lol. True. One time I was in love with a guy and I also wanted to be friends . I had this very ominous sense that if he was not attracted to me , we would not even be talking & him telling me he was attracted to me was actually insulting to me and I felt offended^^ BUT he had issues and I don't think he really knew how to be friends with women who liked him, if he liked them -or women who did not like him, if he did not like them-- Ego needs stroking, but emotions can't be disturbed.
So anyways, if you meet people with depth , confidence , good morals & passions- they are not going to just be with you for looks. You'll be back on here complaining this guy said he thought I was beautiful but I bore him ^^ joke*
Anyways meet guys who are cool instead of shallow & you'll be fine- good luck :)
Plus you'll see lots of posts hear from guys saying " Looks attract but personality keeps them around & seals the deal."2