So, recently, my boyfriend of two months broke up with me. And to tell the truth, I didn't mind. I totally understood what he was saying, and I knew it was time. Now I have all my best girl friends coming over with girl magazines and chick flicks, when really all I want to do is go out and party. When I tell them this, no one seems to believe me. At school all of his friends look at me in pity, but I'm fine! I still want to be friends with him, but everything about me screams: AWKWARD to him. ARGH, help me.
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Well...when your friends come over to console you *grins* tell em to enjoy the movie, and go out.
If they don't get the idea right then...well, you need to get a thicker crayon when you draw them the picture.
People have expectations due to their past experiences. Doesn't mean you are going to feel the same. We all deal with situations our own way.
Sounds like you were pretty much OK from the start...they just don't know how to understand this.
As far as his friends...talk to him. Tell him you want to stay friends...but if his friends don't stop you may have to mame, or simply kill a few of them. While it would be a fast solution, you don't want to ruin your clothes, so if he could perhaps just let them know the two of you broke up on good terms?
Been there once or twice. Friends can be wonderful...till they aren't ROFL0