Yeah, enlighten me.
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You know what they say, "One man's trash, is another man's treasure". Not to say that these guys are trash, but you get my drift.
1. Personality - Yes, we all care about looks to an extent, that's reality. However, the degree of importance in which individuals place on this is varied for both guys and girls. Personality is the very essence of love and looks cannot stand the test of time like an deep emotional connection.
2. Looks - Sure, as a society, we have developed certain standards for attractiveness and ugliness, however, not everyone finds all the same things attractive. What you may see as an unattractive guy could be attractive to this attractive girl. A flaw maybe considered an adorable quirk and what is seemingly ugly maybe be considered a divergence off the path of the societal standard of attraction, in essence, a "different type of beauty".
However, more important than that is how you see yourself and to work on bringing the best of yourself out to the women you wish to attract, not comparing how other guys get chicks. It's not a guarantee, but, I feel it's the best way to find someone who loves and accepts you for who you are.2