I am a nice sweet person, I am 22, always faithful, and honest, never lie and can never say no. I don't swear, I don't take advantage of people. I am attractive as people tell me, although I never show off or brag about myself, but guys always take advantage of me. I really fall in love and then they hurt me and dump me after 2 years etc. Everyone tells me it's because I'm too soft hearted and I need to toughen up and choose different guys. No matter what I do or say they just let me go like a piece of rubbish.
Why do you guys do this, I am not saying I am perfect but I am a very sweet person, I never hurt anyone, so why would you hurt a girl like me and just let her go? I need some in put please. I am so tired of getting hurt!
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Looks like you are in a pattern of being used, and then dumped. Instead of blaming the robbers when you get robbed, it is better to figure out what you did wrong, e.g. did you believe the world was heaven with no robbers/rapists/terrorists...etc.? Did you listen to your gut feelings with people? Were you crystal clear on the kind of guy you want, and accept no compromises?
Better learn the lesson because if you don't, this pattern is merely going to be repeated all your life. These links may help you, works the same for guys/girls >> link