i always see these things about how men need physical "signs" that you like him. I think he likes me. he's a real gentleman, holds doors, gets defensive if a guy hits on me aggressively, makes sure I get home, buys me lunch, called me cute the other day, etc... (still super happy about that, lol)
at any rate, I'm shy and can have these really awkward tendencies to f*** things up, so I was wondering how I can touch him without coming off as this flirtatious, easy kinda girl. something simple, but noticeable. I don't want to look like a creep though. answers much appreciated!
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First of all, remember, you have the advantage. You are the lady. Ladies always have the "right of way" concerning flirting.
Start with the shoulders... a girl is always free to pat a man on the back or hold him by his shoulders. Brief rubbing of the shoulders is a little more daring, but also okay.
Long hugs are also a good. DON'T make the mistake of asking for the hug, just do it. Go up to him, make eye contact, then put your arms around him, and "invite" him into your space. Only an idiot would refuse a hug from a lady. As you do this more often, make them last longer. Hug him tightly and warmly.
On the more daring side, when you are sitting with him, gently place your hand on his knee. Believe me, he'll notice. LOL. don't go above the lower thigh, or this will seem extremely aggressive.
There are plenty of ways you can "flirt" with a guy... just remember that good flirting is like watching a good magic act: it has to be believable to look real, but it's really just a game.7