I'm such a loser, I can't even make eye contact with a guy, how can I fix this?

I'm really self conscious and I think I'm a freak so I have trouble with guys. I can't even make eye contact with them because I'm afraid they'll think I'm a loser or if I do try to make eye contact they don't look back so I'm almost positive I'm either unattractive or invisible or both. People tell my mom how pretty I am, but it's feels like their calling a little kids finger painting pretty. Usually I just stare at a spot on the wall and just stick to that. Most guys don't even notice me, I think I'm a guy repeller. So.. what can I do? Am I doomed? How can I be more confident in myself? I'm pretty outgoing but as soon as a guy comes around I go on mute.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • the best way to get over this just keep interacting with people who are part of your daily life ,neighbors,colleagues,people on bus etc etc ,so you will get used to it

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What Guys Said 1

  • Theres no way your a freak don't worry :)

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What Girls Said 1

  • you're not doomed. you just gotta practice. start with cashiers at supermarkets, the bank teller, the waiter,etc. practice

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