So I would say I dress more towards the modest side... not to the extreme though. I just don't care to show off my body to the entire world. I wear clothes that are cute, but I still feel comfortable in them. Do guys find this more attractive than a girl dressed like a whore?
When I say whore... I mean a girl who deliberately dresses sexually to get attention from men.
Your appearance goes a long way to suggest what sort of person you are like without even needing to actively communicate to find out. Of course, this seems like it is breaking the age old proverb of, "Don't judge a book by its cover" but for the most part I think you can skip the benefit of the doubt thing. Sure, the majority of guys are turned on by provocative attire, but its usually of the sexual instinct. As much as females like different types of guys, the same goes for guys too.
Depends on how you define "whore". If by whore you mean some horrible slut that dares to wear a miniskirt then I'd disagree, but if you mean the lady I saw at the store last night who was wearing a bikini top and sweat pants that said "LOVE ME" on the back of them then I'd agree.
I can honestly say I have more guys come up to me and talk to me when I dress modestly and cute. A little skin and confidence is all you need to have guys approach you. I wear sexier looking clothes when I go out, but generally I'm a modestly dressed person. Yes, the guys will look when you wear skimpy clothing, but who wouldn't!? Plus, being respectful when you're just "out and about" is one thing that I have a very strong opinion about. Children and old people don't need to see your ass or your cleavage. Have some respect for others.
For me personally I love wearing cute clothes that make you feel comfortable in your own skin I wouldn't want to wear something that is bound to fall apart and have to pull a Britney. Girls today should be owning their own bodies without having to please their counterparts, feel beautiful without the repercussion of what guys think about you a guy will find you attractive either way at least the "good" ones you don't want douche bags hitting on you
So a girl who dresses less modestly than you do is a whore? Just because I'm not ashamed of my body and show some leg or cleavage makes me a whore? And what's wrong with liking attention from men? I get so pissed off when people automatically think a girl is a whore or just looking for attention just because she shows some skin. You dress in what you like, and I'll dress the way I like. Damn. Whatever happened to freedom of expression and live and let live?
Yes modesty does still count because, I consider myself to be conservative. I feel like the whole world doesn't have to see "half of my birthday suit/ my body" lol... It more special when less people see it, but it that question does come into my mind soooometimeess...
if a girl is dressed "like a whore" its gonna be instantly attractive to a guy, but only for sexual reasons. if a girl is dressed modestly and she's still attractive, she's gonna come off more like relationship material
I wear modest clothes too. in the sense that I'm not showing my boobs to the world, or passing off bikini tops as shirts. I wear clothes that cover me but at the same time, tight enough that it shows off my body. I wear jeans that elongate my legs. so it's possible to be modest, and show off at the same time