Do you think I'm shallow because I won't date someone I don't find physically attractive? I don't think that's shallow, that's normal, right? Everyone wants someone who they're attracted to, don't they? A person that you like for their personality but doesn't turn you on is just a friend, I don't see how you can want to be affectionate and physical with someone you aren't turned on by.
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well there isn't a physical attraction, there most likely won't be an attraction at all. physical attraction is usually the first impression that someone gets from someone else. so if you don't find them attractive, then you are less likely to want to learn more about them and develop a liking for them. so no, you aren't being shallow. if you date someone you aren't attracted to, that would be more like a charity then anything.1