i know..i have to admit but I think for any girl its hard not to see ourselves through men ha ha but I do a good job of blocking it out ha ha I feel the most attractive when I play tennis..it feels good to know I'm taking care of myself and I'm good at something. I feel really attractive when I can talk to people and make funny jokes, I'm not a great coversationalist but I try...ahaha
and to ensure I look good, I just look at the girls that some of the guys find attractive and remember that they just have bad taste and its not me and I have to remember that I'm not into those guys so why should I listen to what they have to say when I really don't care about their opinion in general is...thats if I do not respect them or find them ignorant...i know it sounds stupid but heyy I'm want to be the motivator for my confidence ...not men! haha
I always feel sexy when I'm wearing the rings of Saturn. It's really effective at attracting other planets towards me--they are way funner to date than human males (though I've also attracted some boring meteoroids too).
Honestly though I don't focus too much on my looks. I thrive on compliments about my art, the work I've done, my personality...things like that. So I guess I can't really say except I just feel great when I give back to the world and use my talents to better it...not that it really answers the question but it's all I can think of.