Hey ladies, I find that most girls (including myself) feel attractive depending on the attention we get from guys (anything from stares to smiles etc.), but I'd like an alternative.
What do you do to ensure that you look nice? Even other confident girls I know have to have some kind of feedback from the dudes.
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i know..i have to admit but I think for any girl its hard not to see ourselves through men ha ha but I do a good job of blocking it out ha ha I feel the most attractive when I play tennis..it feels good to know I'm taking care of myself and I'm good at something. I feel really attractive when I can talk to people and make funny jokes, I'm not a great coversationalist but I try...ahaha
and to ensure I look good, I just look at the girls that some of the guys find attractive and remember that they just have bad taste and its not me and I have to remember that I'm not into those guys so why should I listen to what they have to say when I really don't care about their opinion in general is...thats if I do not respect them or find them ignorant...i know it sounds stupid but heyy I'm want to be the motivator for my confidence ...not men! haha0