I'm starting to think there aren't any good guys out there anymore. Even my best guy friend says "I would date you and have feelings for you, but I don't like you ." Wtf does that even mean? Seriously, even the good guys seem to just be playing a game or lying to get in a girl's pants. Guys seriously, are there any guys out there who want a girl they will respect and actually be in a relationship with and not just leave after they get sex? I'm starting to believe there aren't any out there anymore.
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Your best friend likes you, but is afraid to show it.
You can't have feelings for someone and NOT like them.
If you want to date your best guy friend, and take the initiative, I guarantee you he isn't going to refuse.
And yes, there ARE good guys out there, but girls aren't attracted to them. There ARE guys who want an actual RELATIONSHIP, but you wouldn't want to go out with him if you met him. That's just how girls are. Attraction works on a subconscious for you.
Here, you say you want a caring guy who respects you and won't leave after they had sex. But out there, if you meet a guy like that, you're not gonna feel any chemistry with him.
And before you say I have no idea what I'm talking about, just take a look at your best friend, and give me ONE good reason why you're not going out with him.0