Everyday I get up in the morning, and I do my hair, my makeup, and I try to dress nicely. I also get my nails done, and I work out a lot to stay in shape. Now, I would expect that these things would be good because I take care of myself, but my best guy friends have recently brought to my attention that the reason I can't find a good guy is because I obviously put effort into my looks, thus meaning I am shallow, high maintenance, and I can't "kick back" with the guys. And basically, the only guys that approach me are only looking for sex for that reason.
Now, this is shocking and disappointing to me, because I do not spend more than half an hour getting ready in the morning, and everything I buy for myself is on sale (I won't indulge in high price things.) I see myself as really down to earth, and I love camping, hiking and hockey stuff just as much as the next guy. I am not shallow when it comes to other people's looks either.
So should I try less hard to look nice? I hate that people can't take me seriously, and I am getting really sick of of only jerky guys going after me.
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Well these are guys telling you this so I would take it with a grain of salt. I think people not taking you seriously is more in how you act then how you look. As far as only jerky guys going after you could try going after some nicer guy, I'm sure he would appreciate it and it might turn out well. Other than that if your not spending some ridiculously large amount of time getting ready well I don't believe its a problem.0