I'm pretty much describing me here and I'm not fishing for compliments and I understand every girl is different but I'm just curious if there's specific qualities of myself that women don't like and what not.
-I'm a "nice guy" opposite of bad boy.
-I'm a video game geek
-I'm a stay at home kind of guy.
-I don't drink, smoke, and not really one for going out too much.
-I'm a bit overweight, like 230 or so.
-I have a bit of weird fetishes/preferences but if I was dating you I'd like you for you not your looks
-I'd never cheat nor would I forgive it
-I'm pretty OCD and a neat freak. I hate when people touch my things without asking or when my stuff is out of alignment.
-I love animals, I have to hug/kiss my dog at least once if I see her.
-I'm not into sports or most "guy" things. I have my fair share of testosterone but I'm more of a quiet shy kind of guy
-I'm a bit clumsy
-I like humor and usually am silly.
I guess I could go on but those are the main ones I guess? Like I said I'm not trying to put myself out there or anything (I am posting anon) I'm just wondering if there are any particular qualities that most women would find offputting. I know who I am and I'm not going to change just to please someone but once again just curious
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I'll tackle what I think of each one for you ;)
-Nice guy: I don't even think about dating "bad boys"
-Video game geek: How much? You need to play at least every day to please me...
-Stay at home: Me too, so that doesn't bother me!
-No drinking/smoking: Thank you!
-Bit overweight: This part would worry me a little bit, not because I'm worried about looks but because I have a lot of problems and need to be on special diets (no gluten, low lactose and acidic acids), so I need a health conscious kind of guy or a guy who'd be willing to change :)
-Fetishes/preferences: as long as this isn't anything too hardcore I think I could live with it
-Never cheat and wouldn't forgive it: Good for you! So long as you can forgive minor things, like...I don't know, forgetfulness or something
-OCD/neat freak: I'm a little OCD too but I'm also super curious and fidgety, so if a guy got too mad at me about that I don't think we'd work out, but if we got along I'd try to contain myself as best I could :)
-Animals: That's great! Animals rock! I do the same with my pets!
-Not into sports: Meh, I prefer guys who aren't into sports as I'm not either, so long as they don't mind my history as a dancer ;)
-Clumsy: I laugh at clumsy people not to be mean but because I'm clumsy too so whatever they just did I've probably done as well!
-Humor and silliness: Perfect! Most girls love a guy who can make them laugh! For me personally it depends on the humor, I'm not that big into "dirty" humor, but just about anything else I'll laugh at lol
Hope that helped? ^_^0