For the last couple I years I seem to only be attracting the wrong types of girls, desperate girls and attention whores. The desperate ones will do anything to throw themselves at me, and the desperate ones are, well desperate.
What would keep the nice, emotionally stable girls away from me?
I am complemented on my personality often, and I have lot of friends. I'm also well groomed and cleanly dressed.
Is there something putting me at the edges of this hyperbole of personalities?
I am getting worried that its my looks.
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For some reason on a deep level, you're attracting the same type of women. You have an expectation that all women are like that, so that's what you're going to continue to attract. Just by stating "for the last couple of years I seem to only be attracting the wrong types of girls," you're putting it out there. You have to recognize that NOT ALL women are like that, and focus on WHY you think you like them. There's something about them that is drawing you in. Picture all of these girls...what do they have in common? Once you recognize that, focus on the qualities that you DO want. Open yourself up and realize that the woman you want might not "look" the way you expect. Also, give yourself more credit. You seem to have good intentions, so your luck will turn around once you break your pattern :)0