I always hear...if a guy wants to be with you then he wold be with you but I was wondering if there were certain exceptions or reasons why he wouldn't. I'm starting to think this saying is really true.
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Not always true. For a confident outgoing guy, yes. Confident guys go after what they want and they make there own moves. If a guy has no problem with being around the opposite sex than he will be direct and pursue the girl(s) he wants.
But the other guys labeled as "shy" or "quiet" will mostly likely have a problem initiating you or asking you out. These guys may have something valuable (quiet confidence, friendliness, and generosity) but they normally sweat when they even think about asking you out.
So to answer your question, no. Only the guys who are fun, outgoing, confident, and comfortable with themselves and being around other people, will pursue you. These guys normally have no problem speaking their minds, expressing themselves and going after what they want. It's the shy guys that will like someone but don't do anything about it and then wonder why they didn't end up with a girl. It doesn't mean a shy guy can change though =)
If you like someone who is acting shy or distant but you're certain he likes you, you should engage him. Be friendly so that you can help him open up to you and possibly ask you out.0