Just like the question. Mind you this happened a few years back, but I'm just wanting to get a straight answer. Why would she care about how she dresses for me? I mean, I know she says things like "I want to look nice for you." and such, but when I tell her flat out that it doesn't matter what you wear because clothes don't matter why does she still insist on looking her best? Even if I'm eating at her house. Please, someone elaborate.
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Because she cares for her sake.
What a lot of guys don't understand is that a lot of us like to look nice for ourselves. I wouldn't prefer to be around anyone looking a hot mess because when I look good, I feel good. You might not care, but she does and that's what matters. She's doing it for herself because if it were only about what you thought then she wouldn't try to look her best since you said it didn't matter.1