What do you think.. does the way your boyfriend girlfriend look matter to you? weather there skinny average size or fat? the clothes they were makeup etc. his hair the way he dresses etc.? would you ever make fun of them because of the way they look? isn't what is inside of them what counts?
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It would be nice if what was inside them would matter, however whatever you are unable to express and show others is something that does not exist for the outer world. Your worth locked within you unseen by others is worthless.
So unfortunately looks are the primary factor in everyone's "rating system", because that's the first thing you see, and a LOT of people are so oblivious that they instantly apply positive characteristics to the person just based on looks, because they are unable to actually see their personality. This is the "halo effect". You can only see an image of the inside, and you can make assumptions based on it, but people can act absolutely differently from what they would do normally in unpressured circumstances.
We cannot know the inside of others well enough to take it into consideration as a primary factor, as it is not what we see for the first time. You can only make assumptions about the personality. You will never be able to "see" it.
P.S.: Anyways, I hate makeup because it hides people's natural beauty. Hair, face and eyes are the most important factors, the people who care about the body more than those three have never been truly attracted by girls and are immature and have no idea what they are talking about.0