I met a guy at the bar and we talked for about two hours and he told me I was cute and looked me up an down while we were outside. At the end of the night, he said "I'm really attracted to you, but the only way you would do anything with me is if you're really drunk." What does he mean by that?
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It means he lacks confidence and is playing a special kind of game. As a guy who used to be shy and insecure, I'd toss this out there as a sort of "trial close" in faint hopes she'd say "no, of course not, you're great!" It's fishing for a compliment, and in this case, a date.
The part about him saying you were cute is exactly what he says it is.
Now, if the guy has spiked hair, was wearing sunglasses at 2am, and wearing an Affliction T-shirt, then I toss all this out, and he's just putting on an act. But if the guy seemed a little nervous or shy and like a normal guy, then I stand by the above.0