I am so outraged that he did that. Is it right to look in your daughters diary. I just don't get why he can't just ask what he wants to know. I don't want him knowing all of the things me and my boyfriend do though. I'm f***ed for life now that he read my whole diary. What would you do?
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Personally I think its wrong. I wouldn't if I was your dad. However ime not. What I think and what he can do is two completly different things.
Legally speaking if he is your legal guardian he can look at whatver PROPERTY you have. If he wanted to he could go through your underwear drawer, there's nothing that you can do about it.(that would just be super creepy) However that's in the terms of the law. As long as he is not abusing you or something he did nothing wrong.
But why did he do it, there must be something he wanted to know. Or there's must be something he couldn't trust you about. He probably knows, you won't feem comfortable telling him. I mean if there was stuff about you and your boyfriend and how you say your "f***ed for life" you probably wouldn't of been honest.
He saw it and you can't change it. As of what to do from here its hard to say without knowing what he saw. Just be honest with him. Don't lie or say you didn't. Fess up to what you did. It may be embarrassing but its easier to just be stright up then make a big deal and argue.
In the future just don't right down anything you don't want someone to know.
Ime not saying you do but just letting you know. If he's looking at your diary that's private I could easily see him wanting to look at your phone or computer if you have one. I don't know what's on there but chances are between the two there's sites youve visted or messeges youve sent that you don't want him to see. So also be carefull of that.0
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