What is the most important thing, personality or looks?

the question pretty much says it all, meant for guys :)


Most Helpful Guy

  • Regarding what? A girl to date or f***?

    A girlfriend, for me, must have both a compatible personality with mine and must be physically attractive to me. Neither is 'more' important because if either one is missing the other is irrelevant.


What Guys Said 1

  • personality. outer beauty draws attention to a girl but if I find out that the girl has a sh*tty personality she no longer has any beauty to me.


What Girls Said 1

  • For both guys and girls, looks is a deal breaker.

    If you see someone who you're attracted to, then instantly you make a subconscious judgement. If you're out, you look at someone, and if you're attracted to them physically you will talk to them, no one's ever looked at someone, thought they were hideous and said to them self "That's who I want!"

    It's the looks that attracts someone, it's the personality that keeps them. Everyone shallow about certain things, e.g a lot of men won't date fat girls. Which in its self isn't bad, because they chose to be fat, they chose to not lose weight, so they can't complain that guys don't want to date someone who often looks unattractive because of their weight, and have health risks.