So as a female, what's the chance for you girls to decide that you wanna hang out w this certain male individual ,that you don't know much about who's asking you for a dinner simply out of nowhere...? (please include reasoning)
And for males, feel free to share your story whether it's a success or a failure? I'm sure there are lots of us who'd love to learn from your experiences...
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If he said hi to me in the halls at school and if he smiles at me and makes eye contact when he can and then suddenly he walks up to me saying "Hey! so I was wondering if we could see a movie this friday?" I would be shocked, and happy (if I liked him) I'd say why not? and go for it. If it's a guy I like that I'm always making eye contact with and I always say hi to him when I can but I don't really know him, I'm definitely like it. but If he's a stranger who only passes me in the hall who suddenly asks me out, I wouldn't like that. I wouldn't like it because it's moving way too fast, going somewhere with someone on what seems to be a date when I hardly know this person. You gotta talk to her first, get to know her, then go and ask.
I'd say yes to a guy asking to take me to dinner if...
*He says hi to me every once in a while, we just don't have the time to talk
*He makes eye contact with me when he can
*I like him
BUT I'd prefer he talk to me and get to know me a little, then ask me.
I wouldn't say yes to a guy asking to take me to dinner if...
*He never looks at me or smiles
*I don't really like him/know much about him
*He acts like I'm not there
and this is based off a guy asking me out of the blue, all of a sudden, out of nowhere.1