I want to bring back chivalry and what a man should be as they mature, but I feel that women in today's society would not appreciate it. I guess the real question is, do women respect/wish to get involved with a chivalrous gentlemen? For those who don't know what it means to be a chivalrous gentlemen, I mean a man who is of high moral standing and dresses very sharply.From what I can see, being a ridiculously dressed Ed Hardy fan who goes to the gym 24/7 to keep a 20-pack while on steroids seems like the only guy women love to be with.
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Well I don't believe that chivalry has anything to do with how he dresses. Like you stated in the book you read, "The American Gentleman". It really has to do with courtesy and generosity. That to me is another word for respect.
Do I think the modern gentlemen is dead? No. Definitely not. I believe that women still crave this behavior from men, however the whole "game" is what makes them question if the man's actions are genuine. Insecurities or questions are raised when the man becomes much more tentative then what they are used to with other men. Therefore our attempts to of chivalry isn't appreciated like it used to be.