Alright boys, just be straight with me...
I am not the kind of girl looking for a relationship and I don't obsess about guys, but there is just this one drunken hook-up that I cannot get over.
So there was this hottie pro-skier at this one party I was at. I saw him and noted that he was very attractive but never thought twice about it because I assumed he was too far out of my league. So I didn't pay any attention to him and then he just starts talking to me and sh*t and like making me sit on his lap and asking me questions and stuff. and this was all before he was very drunk. However I was smashed. So then I assumed that he just wanted some ass, and I did too so it was cool. So we start making out and then I went down on him, but he didn't reciprocate. (keep in mind that this was a canyon party so we were sleeping outside) so then in the morning I woke up and he had moved into the car. He claimed that he was just cold, but refused to get out of the car when a friend asked him what he was doing in there.
Anyway, so then when I left he waved bye. I just don't understand it really. And all I really want is closure.
so three questions
1) is not reciprocating just a d*** move or a lack of interest?
2) does it sound like he just didn't want to see me because he was embarrassed?
And 3) do guys often hook up with girls they actually think aren't attractive just because they are drunk? And if he told people about it does that mean he wasn't ashamed of it?
enlighten me
I am not the kind of girl looking for a relationship and I don't obsess about guys, but there is just this one drunken hook-up that I cannot get over.
So there was this hottie pro-skier at this one party I was at. I saw him and noted that he was very attractive but never thought twice about it because I assumed he was too far out of my league. So I didn't pay any attention to him and then he just starts talking to me and sh*t and like making me sit on his lap and asking me questions and stuff. and this was all before he was very drunk. However I was smashed. So then I assumed that he just wanted some ass, and I did too so it was cool. So we start making out and then I went down on him, but he didn't reciprocate. (keep in mind that this was a canyon party so we were sleeping outside) so then in the morning I woke up and he had moved into the car. He claimed that he was just cold, but refused to get out of the car when a friend asked him what he was doing in there.
Anyway, so then when I left he waved bye. I just don't understand it really. And all I really want is closure.
so three questions
1) is not reciprocating just a d*** move or a lack of interest?
2) does it sound like he just didn't want to see me because he was embarrassed?
And 3) do guys often hook up with girls they actually think aren't attractive just because they are drunk? And if he told people about it does that mean he wasn't ashamed of it?
enlighten me
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