I'm one of those girls, those "rare" girls who seem to have everything wrong with them.
I am not thin, nor fat. I have small breasts. A column girl. I have thick thighs and no bum. I'm not pretty either. Absolutely nothing positive about my self.
Now what are girls like me supposed to do? There really aren't any redeeming features of myself and I am working out to get thinner, but my thighs are just fat.
I know I'll never attract any guy and I do love androgyny...
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I'm gonna tell you something you may or may not have heard before. If you are looking for just sex or a fling or a FWB situation then that's where your looks are going to be considered more. If you want a real relationship then it's your personality that will shine the most, whether you're attractive or not. Someone's personality really does make them much more attractive. Even if you are ugly (I'm not saying that you are) a wonderful personality can make you so much more attractive. I have been attracted to not so attractive girls because they had great personalities, which in turn made them look more physically attractive.
Now, I'm sure you are not ugly at all and the right guys will not care about the size of your breasts, the size of your bum or whether you're fat or thin. The right guys will want to be with you because of your mind and personality, as well as your looks. I'm sure you have features which make you stand out. Everyone has something about them. And it's true when people say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Just because you think low of yourself it doesn't mean other people do.
You just need to work on your confidence. Confidence also makes someone that much more attractive. Every girl is beautiful in her own special way, INCLUDING YOU!1