Guys what do you think about girls with gauged ears? Gross or cute?
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Mine are stretched, and I like them for myself. So naturally, I like them on other people as well. Or at the very least, I don't mind them. I agree with Smallz though, in that they look best when they aren't so large that they distort the natural shape of the ear. And obviously how big is 'too big' will vary from person to person and ear to ear.
Most guys seem to find stretched ears unattractive, and there will probably be more to come who will agree with them. But there are plenty of guys who think they're cute, and they won't always be the 'kind' of guys you'd expect. I certainly wasn't expecting the reaction I got from the guy I'm seeing. He doesn't have tats or piercings or look in any way 'alternative'. Regular jeans and t-shirt kind of guy. I thought he'd already known my ears were stretched, but he didn't. One day he caught a glimpse I guess, and he reaches over and says, 'I didn't know you had gauged ears!' with a big smile on his face, tucks my hair back behind my ear, and kisses the side of my head. He, evidently, thinks they're very cute. That may not be the all-conclusive default male opinion, but there are other guys who dig it.
If you have stretched ears, chin up. Don't make it an issue and don't let it be an issue. If one tiny aspect of your physical appearance is enough to make a dude say, 'OH HELL NO', then he's probably not a dude you'd want anyway. If you're PLANNING on stretching your ears, don't be discouraged. If you want to do it, I assume it's because you like it. Don't let other people get in the way of you doing something YOU want to do, for yourself.0