I'm not the best looking girl in the world, and I feel very insecure especially about my small boobs and large thighs (with cellulite, ugh).
I tend to worry a lot about what guys think, because most guys I've heard say these features are unattractive. I feel so gross. Since I already look this way (and no, I'm not overweight), I gotta accept myself, but I feel I can't because I crave validation for my looks, but I rarely get it. So, how can I stop caring about what other people, especially guys, think about my face and body?
Lol, just before anyone assumes anything, I work out every day and take care of myself (wear a bit of make up, pluck my eyebrows, shower everyday, etc.)
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Just don't give a f*ck.
Change what you can naturally whether it's through working out,using creams and scrubs,giving yourself extra attention and accept what you can't change.If you take care of yourself for YOU,then that is all that matters.You're always going to be your worst critic,you'll place expectations on yourself for no reason and you'll see "problems" with yourself that no one else sees.
Stop being negative and pointing out flaws.When picking out clothing,dress for yourself,when putting on make-up do it for you.Gaining validation from others has no gain,you have to validate yourself before anyone else can validate you.
Just stop caring.There comes a day,when you'll wake up and just say "I don't care" It will happen,trust me,and you will feel so liberated and free,it's amazing.1