I am turned off by stretch marks,they are just disgusting.Would it make me a bad guy or person to break up with her because I'm turned off by her stretch marks?
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I'm gonna admit, I got a little upset the first moment I read this.
Stretch marks can't be helped. I have them on my breasts and my hips, and a few small ones on my inner thighs. Lucky for me, I have really fair skin (I'm a redhead) so when the scars faded, they blended in.
You get stretch marks from growth spurts (I grew Dcup boobs practically over night) and from gaining weight or from excessive stretching of the skin (over exercising or whatever).
You can't make them go away. You can put creams on to help them fade and become smaller, but they're there. She can't get rid of them. I can guarantee she hates her stretch marks as I do, and would love to have them disappear, but has come to terms with the hard fact that they won't.
Think about flaws you may have. Are you a little over weight? Flabby muscle tone? Maybe you have a receding hair line. Maybe you can't grow facial hair and a full beard. Granted, you're most likely no Brad Pitt look-a-like and there are very few Angelina Jolie's out there for the average guy.
You need to suck it up and decide how important this girl is to you. If all you care about is her body, not who she really is as a person, and can't deal with such a minor flaw that she can't change, then be a jerk and break up with her. Because if you can't get over it, you don't deserve her anyway.5