Yes, you'd be a real fool to break up with her for something so common to almost all girls as having stretch marks. I can pretty much guarantee that you will never find a girl without stretch marks.
It's pretty funny how any guy with a preference is automatically superficial and shallow...although you won't find very many girls who do not have stretch marks
Well it's true. You can't say it's not superficial, it's the very DEFINITION of superficial. It's okay to have preferences, most people do, but getting so turned off by one minor flaw that you actually consider breaking up with a girl or asking her to cover up her body is just... extreme. And it doesn't seem okay to me.
No, the literal definition of "preference" is very different from the literal definitions of "superficial" and "shallow". But he's not treating this issue as a preference. He's treating it as a dealbreaker. That's very different.
And?Many preferences ARE dealbreakers.So what?There are plenty of deal breakers.I won't date a guy with a unibrow.Sue me.
I just think it's funny how the girls on here are so gung ho on making guys think the way they want them to think.life goes on.we don't know how his girlfriend looks or how bad her stretch marks are
I guess a preference can be a dealbreaker. Maybe it depends how you interpret it. I have "preferences" but that doesn't mean I'm going to break up with a guy who doesn't meet every little requirement, because personality is more important to me. If someone is the most hideous person I've ever met, yeah, I might have a hard time getting past it. And I might not START dating them in the first place. But if I'm attracted to a guy enough to start dating him, I'm not going to judge him for something
I genuinely believe that it's wrong to be superficial. I also don't think there's any benefit to it. I give as good as I get. I'm not just looking for comfort.
Yes. She can't help it. Stretch marks are permanent. And you're a jerk for being so critical. I bet your body isn't perfect and you've probably got some stretch marks too.
I used Dermalmd Stretch Mark Removal through my entire pregnancy and did not get one single stretch mark! I used this stretch mark remvoal twice a day and really slathered it on and it helped a ton. This was my first pregnancy and I was a little scared of how bad my stretch marks would get... I never thought I WOULDN'T get them! :) Very happy customer!
It wouldn't make you a bad guy unless she finds out that was the reason you broke up with her but if you are going to break up with her I suggest you be honest!
hahah so happy that was a troll because I was just about to go off at you. She can't help stretch marks and usually they'll fade with time anyway.
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I don't think there is anybody quite as shallow as you. You ever find somebody willing to marry you, you two have a child (please don't), chances are that she will have stretch marks of some kind. You going to bail on her and move on to another?
like the others said, suggesting cream is a really bad idea. and if you expect her to correct ever correctable flaw on her, you had better be willing to do the same. Crooked teeth? Acne? Hair in places she doesn't like? Don't let it fester if you can do something about it!
sure I'd get waxed if my girlfriend wanted me to. what's the big deal? applying cream to your skin is not exactly as hard as wearing braces, nor as expensive. I could do those invisaligns if she paid for them. evangelina your first sentence seems to contradict what you've been saying. are the commercials I have seen really just snake oil? I never looked into it.
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thats not fair, its not like she CHOSE to have stretch marks
I never said she chose to have stretch marks
then why hold it against her?
that is so shallow! but sadly a lot of guys are like this these days!
Actually,girls are shallow too.It's called preference,makes on human being.
yes that does make you horribly shallow! And you do realize, don't you, that stretch marks are virtually IMPOSSIBLE to get rid of!
Yes, you'd be a real fool to break up with her for something so common to almost all girls as having stretch marks. I can pretty much guarantee that you will never find a girl without stretch marks.
It's pretty funny how any guy with a preference is automatically superficial and shallow...although you won't find very many girls who do not have stretch marks
Well it's true. You can't say it's not superficial, it's the very DEFINITION of superficial. It's okay to have preferences, most people do, but getting so turned off by one minor flaw that you actually consider breaking up with a girl or asking her to cover up her body is just... extreme. And it doesn't seem okay to me.
umm isn't that the definition of a preference ? lol
No,I don't view it as superficial at all,it's a preference.I don't understand why y'all are making it seem as though it's the end of the world.
And no,preference doesn't not mean superficial or shallow.
No I meant breaking up with someone because you don't like something about them is not superficial and it IS preference, was agreeing with you lol
No, the literal definition of "preference" is very different from the literal definitions of "superficial" and "shallow". But he's not treating this issue as a preference. He's treating it as a dealbreaker. That's very different.
Ooo...to be honest I just didn't even get what you were saying.Didn't know if you were asking or not lol
but preferences CAN be a deal breaker...
And?Many preferences ARE dealbreakers.So what?There are plenty of deal breakers.I won't date a guy with a unibrow.Sue me.
I just think it's funny how the girls on here are so gung ho on making guys think the way they want them to think.life goes on.we don't know how his girlfriend looks or how bad her stretch marks are
lsfahlflhjfsljfajl.I put that but your comment posted first
I guess a preference can be a dealbreaker. Maybe it depends how you interpret it. I have "preferences" but that doesn't mean I'm going to break up with a guy who doesn't meet every little requirement, because personality is more important to me. If someone is the most hideous person I've ever met, yeah, I might have a hard time getting past it. And I might not START dating them in the first place. But if I'm attracted to a guy enough to start dating him, I'm not going to judge him for something
that I didn't see until the clothes came off.
superficial means on the surface; stretch marks are on the surface.
Bingo
And?
I don't think it makes him selfish.I know girls on this site only want answers that comfort them,so it's whatever
I genuinely believe that it's wrong to be superficial. I also don't think there's any benefit to it. I give as good as I get. I'm not just looking for comfort.
Yes. She can't help it. Stretch marks are permanent. And you're a jerk for being so critical. I bet your body isn't perfect and you've probably got some stretch marks too.
I used Dermalmd Stretch Mark Removal through my entire pregnancy and did not get one single stretch mark! I used this stretch mark remvoal twice a day and really slathered it on and it helped a ton. This was my first pregnancy and I was a little scared of how bad my stretch marks would get... I never thought I WOULDN'T get them! :) Very happy customer!
It wouldn't make you a bad guy unless she finds out that was the reason you broke up with her but if you are going to break up with her I suggest you be honest!
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Yea I'm not retarded enough to know girls have stretch marks
You have to be retarded to know what? Hm.
hahah so happy that was a troll because I was just about to go off at you. She can't help stretch marks and usually they'll fade with time anyway.
I don't think there is anybody quite as shallow as you. You ever find somebody willing to marry you, you two have a child (please don't), chances are that she will have stretch marks of some kind. You going to bail on her and move on to another?
What are you going to do when you grow old and your wife has wrinkles all over?
What a jerkwad. Find something better to do with your free time than trolling. Grow up.
it would make you kind of a bad guy. have you tried hinting to use some cream
As a girl, I almost think that would be worse...
people shouldn't let things fester if they can do something about it.
So stretch marks are a problem now?
Um,nothing can be done about stretch marks.It's best if he break up with her and find a lucky girl who doesn't have them
Creams hardly make a difference anyhow, so good luck with that plan.
like the others said, suggesting cream is a really bad idea. and if you expect her to correct ever correctable flaw on her, you had better be willing to do the same. Crooked teeth? Acne? Hair in places she doesn't like? Don't let it fester if you can do something about it!
sure I'd get waxed if my girlfriend wanted me to. what's the big deal? applying cream to your skin is not exactly as hard as wearing braces, nor as expensive. I could do those invisaligns if she paid for them. evangelina your first sentence seems to contradict what you've been saying. are the commercials I have seen really just snake oil? I never looked into it.
did you know that 80 % of all women have stretch marks.
so the moral of the story is: you'll learn to ignore them
You wrote that five days ago sh*thead and there is still no update. There's nothing for her to read.
your just an asshole to do that men are just wrong why are you looking at the out side if love comes from the inside you dumbass
Oh, fifteen days ago, well there's still no update.
Em you no nearly EVERY! Girl has them right?
no it doesn't that's just your preference. can't help that
you'd be the most un-loving guy in the world.
I think so. She must not mean much to you.
grow up.