When I always took care of my image and my self improvement girls didn't seem interested.
Now that I don't give a f**k about everything, my beard has grown, same as my hair I think I noticed that some girls show more interest.
Wasn't supposed to be the other way around ?
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As one of the oldest people in this young forum website, I can give you a few reasons why as per "speculation" since I don't know with absolution why girls are being difficult to you after you polish up.
Reason 1: now that you're more handsome, you're also more "intimidating". I went through the same thing. I'm Spanish, fairly good looking like you, so I suffered lack of responses when I'd approach girls. They thought I was just out to use them for sex, thus they became very shy. Note that NOT all girls are going to respond like this. Put on a suit and tie, walk around into a business district, and I assure you women will accept your advances because now they think, you're not only good looking, you have money. And as I'm sure you know, money is power and power is sexy to a woman. Never forget that.
Reason 2: you let yourself go and you beard up...I don't get many approaches when I leave my home after working from home for 4 days straight, yet women smile at me because I suppose they think I'm a sloppy bad boy or just unintimidating. Of course, in Beverly Hills, I'll get scoffed looking like I do, but in some areas, girls will feel more relaxed that I'm not appearing to be conceited. That's about the only reason I can think of why girls would find you so liberated.