How the can I fix this? Or do I just have to find a man who like it?
The other night I was chilling with a friend and we meet up with two of her guys friends. We were chatting and smoking (everyone gets honest on the herb, LOL). Anyways somehow it came up and one of the guys said "Man when I first met you I was intimidated. Don't get me wrong your very pretty, but with your black boots and skirt..." and so on. How bad is this? Am I doomed with most men? I smile and laugh but I almost always get the I was intimidated when we first met (both guys and girls). Help me fix this please!
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It's not at all a bad thing. Some men like an assertive woman, other don't. And the way you're describing this it seems that its more a physical appearance that is "intimidating?" in my opinion that's sexy :P
But "fixing" who you are is not attractive be confident in who you are as a person and don't worry about other things. but from what I've read, you don't have anything to worry about anyway!0