I knew her for 5months.My cousin told her 3months ago that I liked her but she said we are just friends and likes talking with me. All her past relationships ended badly. She shares food, saves seats, and a month ago while watching a movie presentation she was tired and laid her head on my shoulder. About a month ago I was hanging out with her, my friends and my cousin after school. I asked her if she wanted to head home and she said she would do whatever I was doing. Earlier that day she invited me out to the movies with her. We went to the movies that week and I remembered her telling me she hates when guys move fast with her so I didn’t. After the movie we talked, her ride came then she hugged me and left. The only guy she’s mentioned being attracted to is a celebrity. Two weeks ago she called to see if I was on break so we could hang out. But of sitting next to me she sat across and we talked. When she was leaving she said her butt felt sticky and asked me to check if it was.
She usually would wait for me after school or calls to find out where I am. She even waited for me for almost an hour a day 2weeks ago. My friend thinks she’s interested cause she always calls me and I never call her but said I should be less available.I was on the bus with her that week but barely talked to her and I caught her watching me a few times. She complemented my clothing good. Last Wednesday I was walking not paying attention and bumped into her smiling at me. Last Sunday she called me while but I missed call. I called her back and she called because she wanted to know if my friend was still selling jackets but decided to buy one in the store. We talked for a half hour about school and about how she was having family over. This being the final two weeks of school I barely see or talk to her due to College exams. I was sitting with my friend at school Tuesday when I felt someone patting me on my shoulder and it was her. She asked me if I was finished and I told her I wasn’t. She and her friend then left. My class was only 5 minutes. When I got onto the bus she was on. We talked about school until her stop. We hugged and she said that hopefully she sees me tomorrow. Yesterday She texted me to let me know she bought a machine to workout on. We Texted back in fourth for 2hours
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In my opinion..I think she likes you. If she's been hurt in the past then she's not going to rush into anything or want a relationship right now and that may be why she says "yall are just friends". But the fact that your cousin told her you like her & she's still hanging out with you like she does shows that...shes interested. In most cases..for example I have quite a few guy friends, if they tell me or if I hear they like me, and I know I don't want anything except to be his friend, I don't continue to do all the same things I was doing before. I kind of back off. I don't want to mislead them, sure I want them as my friend, but I'm going to put a little more space between us so they know I don't like them in that way. I think she's afraid of being hurt again.She might be waiting for YOU to tell her how you feel. I think you should hang in there & keep being her friend. Maybe just back off a little bit. Sometimes us girls get "used" to having something that's always there & we take it for granted. Don't be so available. Let her really miss you & think about not having you around...cute quote I once ran across...because I have a history for falling for "best guy friends"...*A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other...Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever* Best Wishes to Ya! =)0
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