I don't flirt, but I will conversate with you.
I won't sleep with you, but I will try to make you laugh, especially if I think you could use some laughs.
I will respect you and at times, encourage you as a true friend would.
I won't change on you/start to act werid and give mixed msgs, because I only know how to be the same old me.
But I find guys don't want this and stay away.at at times.they seem to hate me and only laugh at me.like how my coworker did.
I feel like an alien.
Am I that peculiar that you don't know what to do with me?
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Based on this description. wow! What a woman! Now, if all this is true, and it isn't something else that could be dissuading them from spending time with you (either them or you), then I have to say I'd be really confused about why they wouldn't at least want to spend time with you.
See, I feel like I have those same qualities, only I'm male (I know, nobody's perfect! Badoom boom!). Girls may claim that I'm fun, or I'm hilarious (ah, but looks aren't everything!) from time to time, but then they won't hang out with me as friends, or even go out with me on a date. I invite them to stuff, and they never show.
Would I find you unusual? Based on your description, and assuming it's true, and basing it off my interactions with most females, yes.
But it depends on your definition of "unusual." It's not a bad thing; in fact, quite the opposite. You sound pretty cool.
I have one girl buddy that I would describe with all of these qualities, and she's one heck of a great woman, and I love her like a sister. Is she unusual in the sense that she has such a cool personality? I'd think so. Does that make her unique? Yes; she's unusual for someone her age to have her level of genuine kindness, maturity and decency. She has the great qualities of womanhood, and very few of the bad ones - You know, those that would make her an immature girl as opposed to the great woman she is. She's rare. Natural pearls can be rare, and in many way, peculiar, but they're also worth a lot, and they're quite beautiful.
Now, if you were a girlfriend or wife, and you NEVER tried to initiate any kind of physical intimacy (I'm not referring only to sexual intercourse), that'd be a problem, but assuming you mean friends or as a girlfriend, I see no problems with you not trying to sleep with the guy. I personally enjoy the innocent stuff anyway.
Hope that answers your question.