Alot of the people at my school dress with sweatpants every day , ugly shredded jeans ( horrible , not fashionable ) and the others dres in the tighest aeropostale clothes they can find. I'm not a tiny girl but I'm not fat either. I have a larger chest. I wear things like skinny jeans , flats and a flowy top and get horrible looks.Like I'm a tottal preppy girl.Im not , I just dress classier . And the other problem is my hair . Its a little past my shoulders , light brown with blond higlights and straight. I try to put in a pretty headband , and again am seen as weird. My best friend won't even support me.What do I do. Fit in with everyone else or keep doing what I'm doing?!?!?!?
By flowy, do you mean like a baby doll top, or one that's more loosely draped around you & not as fitted? Either can be cute, particularly with the way you describe your figure... If anything, sometimes a little looser & flowy is even cuter because it's more subtle. Besides, some girls larger up top aren't comfterable wearing something SKIN TIGHT, & one girl I know wanted to fit in & tried it by tucking her shirt in tightly, (she had no tight shirts) to see if she'd like it. She had guys STARING in a not so polite or subtle way till she tucked it back out, so I sympathize... Anyway, I changed in High School (all boy) because I was a metal head & 99% of the school was preppy so I was being bullied! While I was changed, I HATED IT! I felt like I was in costume almost.. As soon as I was gone from that enviroment, I went back to my jeans & metal tee shirts. Don't change... You'll be happier, & I bet you look pretty...
Don't change yourself to fit in with other people. You are your own person, and if you want to look nicer and classier, then go for it. Honestly, who cares what they think? People will appreciate and think you look much more put together in time, if they don't already. And quite frankly, those people who give you looks are probably jealous that you actually take the time to look nice.
Dont change the way you dress just because some people might not like it. I'm sure there are tons of people who think you dress great. I use to get stares to because people went to school and dressed like slobs and they would look at me odd. I know its not because I dressed weird because I know I looked fine its because they are jealous. People should be able to dress the way they want, if you changed your style to fit others you will look just like them and it wouldn't make up look any different, just a copy cat. but seriously only change it because you want to not because you feel that others don't like your style. and if they keep giving you dirty looks give them one back
Don't ever change yourself for someone else, sooner or later these people will find something else about you they don't like and you'll feel the need to change that too. If they want to dress like slobs so be it, doesn't mean you should either. keep your head up and tell everyone else to screw off. If their not gonna like you for who you are now chances are they will never like you even if you do change.
Ive been where your at. Lol && trust me when I say you will feel wayyyyyyyyy better dressing in what makes you feel comfortable. I didn't realize this til senior year but I'm giving you the secret now. LOL be yourself always, at all times :)
Be yourself. OK a lot of people have been saying that but it seems like your look is a lot classier and cuter than the other girls at you school. I dress like that too, so it's unfortunate that you get dirty looks from. Flaunt your style girl!