Do girls hate nervous guys?

whenever I talk to a girl I get nervous and shaky and they always start to give me a "go to hell" type of look. If I pretend I'm not nervous will girls like me?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Not necessarily. I don't mind when a guy is nervous because it shows me that he actually likes me or really wants to talk to me and he's for real about it. If a guy is too confident or too forward with me it makes me think he's a player and he does this with a lot of other girls. I don't mind confident but if you're too out to give me your number or pulling all of these sappy lines with me then it's a huge turn off. You shouldn't change yourself. It's okay to be nervous just practice ways to be calm or relaxed.

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What Girls Said 5

  • I don't understand how looking nervous and shaky will make a girl give you a 'go to hell' look. But most girls do like a guy who has some confidence. And we like a guy even better if we can see he's nervous but is trying to keep his cool. The more you practice, the better you'll get until you don't look nervous at all :).

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  • I think it's cute when a guy gets nervous over me. And if they don't appreciate you talking to them they're not worth it so no

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  • If you redeem yourself and flat out be like "sorry I'm not used to talking to pretty girls" that would get a good blush because it makes her feel like you rarely hit on anyone and you just so happen to go for her.

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  • No, I think it can be cute. I just don't like guys who can't talk at all and hold a conversation.

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  • for me I feel flattered and blush because I can tell he likes me or at least finds me attractive hehe

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What Guys Said 3

  • Girls above answered most accurately these other answers I take 99.9% of it and throw it out the window. If you are nervous yeah they will know but they will like it to some point it actually makes them work on making you more comfortable. If you get nervous just shrug it off man next time you will be less and less till you don't have to worry about it anymore. Be yourself take a deep breath and tell them what is on your mind. Good luck.

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  • They might find you more attractive. Sometimes what I do is while I talk to the girl I drop a huge rolled of thing of money all singles but the outside bill a 100. The girl than falls deeply in love because it looks like I am rich.

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  • Yes. They do. Nervous = inconfidence and low self-esteem = unattractive. Shame, really.

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