School is always good - subjects she's doing, her fav, college
the weather (good conversation starter)
brothers/sisters, where they go to school, what they're doing
talk about her boyfriend. try and make it seem you and him could be friends (she won't see you as a threat)
Don't call her or text her too much because that would really show that your interested in something more (once a day is too much)
tip: girls have been fed the idea that a guy never wants to be just friends, that they always want something more from you. So for a little while she may be thinking "Is he trying to hit on me?" (even if you're not)
So you have to make every effort not to seem too keen or overly interested in her. Don't stand too close and I strongly suggest you become friends with her boyfriend to prove to her you want to be their friend and to ward off any arguments that may ensue b/w her and her boyfriend because of you.
Pretend she has no boyfriend and talk to her as you would :) But of course just no asking her out/coming onto her
It's easier than you think, since a friendship like this has no pressure to be anything more with the boyfriend involved ! Straight up friendships are what I love having when I'm friends with taken guys :) Good luck!
Treat her the same as you treat your guys friends. Don't flirt with her and talk to her about things you would talk to your guy friends about. Just normal stuff, you know? Like sports, movies, school, etc...
just ask her how her relationships going.. and if she's into any bands you like.. or sports? or anything that you can relate to would be great.. because you don't want to be too.. talkative otherwise she could take it as you wanna be with her.
If you just want to be friends than just act the fool. Being goofy works like a charm. I suspect you're trying to be friends so that you can later swoop in after they break up, though. Guys that are friends with girls and just friends don't need to worry about conversation starters. Friendship should happen naturally. Premeditated thought suggests ulterior motives to me.
Wow, you usually see questions about how to avoid/get out of the friend zone with girls on this site!
It's simple--refrain from anything near flirtatious (sexual jokes and the like pertaining the both of you for example), be a goof, don't stare at her as you would with a girl you're interested in. All-in-all, just pretend she's another one of your guy friends who's company you enjoy.
Don't get nervous or let the fact she's in a relationship bother you, the more you worry about saying something wrong the higher the chance is you'll do so subliminally. Just talk about simple, common things like music.