Guys, how would you feel if there was this girl you met about a month ago that you REALLY liked, went out a time or two and you made it clear that you were interested, but felt like you were doing all the initiating and the work not certain if she liked you as much as you liked her even though she said she liked you too (she may have initated contact once or twice since you met but mostly you). Then all of a sudden you stop texting her like you had been doing every other day since you met her. So for about 2 weeks you don't text her or call her, but you commented on one of her pictures on her facebook about a week ago telling her that you were jealous of the dog and cat she was playing with in the picture. Then she she texts you out of the blue a week later after the facebook comment and it's the first contact from her since you stopped texting/calling her. You both have a brief but good text conversation that you were quick to respond to. Then a few days later she leaves a message for you on facebook about possibly coming to see you and hanging with you for a few days on the invitation you genuinely extended to her a month ago but she says only if the offer was good and you would welcome her (you had told her after the initial dates that you really wanted to see her again and hoped she'd come visit you soon because you both live about 8 hours away.). How would you feel about the idea of her coming to see you? Do you think you'd still have feelings for her? Would you be excited, no longer interested, perhaps give her a second glance that maybe she's willing to put in the effort? what?
Most Helpful Guy
I would be interested and would want to meet to see what the potential of a relationship would be. Of course you can't expect any guarantees but if you don't take a risk every now and then you can never really know for sure. Sometimes you have to make an investment to see any potential reward! good luck!1